What do you say to friends who talk about you behind your back? Like they are my best friends but talk crap.!?
Soo pretty much the best friends I thought I had talk soo much crap about me. I thought I could trust them and they go around telling other people how much of a jerk I am and other rude things. However, a lot of other people think i'm a nice person. Also, some of these friends have no respect for my belongings. One friend broke an expensive crystal figurine that my grandmother gave me and didn't even apologize and even laughed about it. Who does that!? I really don't know what to do with these people. Help 
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GET NEW FRIENDS ASAP! Real friends would never talk about you behind your back, not break your stuff, and when they do, they definitely wouldn’t laugh about it because it would be an accident and they would apologize for hours and try somehow to replace whatever they broke. Friends don’t call you a jerk or say you are rude, and especially not being your back!!! Hang out with the people who say you are nice obviously these other girl are not your best friends, and they seem toxic and negative.
I think they don’t sound like friends at all. It may be hard to do so, but I think its probably in your best interest to move on from them. Friends are supposed to bring you sadness, hurt, and anger. It’s better to get hurt one big time by moving on from this group then to stay in this friendship and get hurt over and over again. I have been here before, and I regret til this day that I ever stayed in such a toxic friendship. And that is what you are in now….very toxic. Just distance yourself and when you stop spending so much time trying to please this set of " friends " it will allow you more time to find real friends…..I wish you all the best!!!! Hang in there…I know it can be rough. You will be just fine : )
My best friends ever for no reason just started to gang up on me and call me names again for no reason. They were jealous… I’m assuming since their really is NO reason… They said stuff to people all the time yet to my face they were my friend. I don’t get it. They just want to be cool, fit in or anything. My advice is to make new friends. I did, but I miss my old friendship. My new friends are too shy… I miss being able to talk and get a reply instead of a nod.
confront and dump. tell them that they are being serious buttholes and tell them that theyre not your friends anymore. friends dont do crud like this. then leave ‘em alone. its their loss.
PS this works with idiotic cheating boyfriends too!
Like I was telling my friend earlier today, these bitches aren’t worth your time or aggravation.
Let them be and find other people who really respect you. You can’t live your life with the burden of this shit being said about you. Don’t fight it, tell them that you are done, and don’t expect anything better to come from them. If you aren’t happy, find people that you can actually be yourself around without worrying if they’ll spread rumors and say things about you. Unfortunately, it happens to everyone. Everyone will say things behind your back, and you can’t let it get to you. Just ignore it, and remind yourself that you aren’t what they say that you are.
I’m a guy so I would punch them (if they were a guy)
If they were a girl I’d f*ck over their head and drop them and go get new friends.
I have little or no respect for such douches though, and I can be a bit overly aggressive.
I suggest just drop your friends who are douches and just hang with your other friends!
It’s something you MUST do, simply because you become like those who you hang with most…
Learn from your experience, now you’ll know what behaviour to look out for and can be prepared and ready to say "nuh uh you dare go there" kinda thing.
Goodluck.
Look out for yourself.
BE arrogant.
Keep those around you who are strong.
Prove to your friend(s) that you are above their gossip.
You don’t need it, you only need to care about what you think about yourself.
Ditch them and find new friends…Friends don’t talk about other friends behind their back, so they’re not really your friends, anyway.
And, seriously…You need to make your "friend" pay for that crystal figurine…Even if you have to get her parents involved…Or a law suit.
Lemme tell you something, you sound Rich asnd i know how you feel cuz i am too, thats why they dol this, i can tell that you are rich or they think you are rich< so leave them theyre jealous, and u have class dont waste your time
just confront them and ask why they are talking behind your back. if you don’t feel like doing so then don’t. just know that a true friend stabs you in the front aka they will tell you anything to your face. you don’t need anyone who does that to you because those are not real friends
Ooh ooh I know…. You see in this type of situation all you need to do is slap them across the face then kick them in the booty then throw them off a building and when they are falling and screaming you jump off and fly towards them then grab them and throw them in the ocean…… Oh and after that when they are getting out the water you grab their hair and throw them in the street and get your daddy car and run them over three… no four times and when they get up you say, "I can’t believe you guys will pretend like you are my friends then turn around and talk crap about me behind my back! I think we shouldn’t be friends anymore." Then calmly walk away. Nobody will mess over you like that again!!!!